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volybal3
07-25-2009, 07:52 PM
In order to be successful at anything, you have to build a foundation, whether it be physical or mental.

On the physical side, you might have to take control of you spending, watch how much you save, and overall how you handle your money. You may need to create a budget to make sure your expenses never exceed your income.

On the mental side of change, you may need to understand that the way you think about money determines how easy or hard it is for you to get to it.

Think about this... I bet you probably think about money the same way your parents thought about money. If they thought money was always scarce and hard to get, you probably think the same way. If your parents thought that they never had enough money, you probably think the same way too.

Because your beliefs about money can help or hinder you financial foundation, let's take a look at some common money destroying myths that can keep people from true wealth.

Ever heard people say, "Money is the root of all evil"? I am sure you have, but guess what? They are wrong! The entire Biblical quote is, "The love of money is the root of all evil." So money itself isn't the of evil, but the way people react to money can, for lack of a better word, become evil. See the difference? If you read the quotation correctly, you will see that evil stems from the love of money. But if you misinterpret the quote, you will mistakenly think that money is evil.

If you see money as something evil, guess how you will treat money in your own life? Do you want evil in your life? Probably not, which means you will do everything you can to keep evil out of your life, which can include keeping money out of your life!

Can you see how negative thoughts and beliefs about money can influence how you will handle money without even realizing it?

You can say, "I don't think money is evil at all. In fact, I will take a whole bunch of it please." That's great, but if you don't have enough money now, you have to change your life so you change the way you handle money, both physically and mentally.

If you change only the way you handle money, you might still fall back on your old money habits if you don't change your thinking about money too. Likewise, if you change only your thoughts about money but don't convert those thoughts into action, you still won't have money.

Only when you change both your physical and mental habits about money can you change the amount of money you will allow into your life. If you really want more money in your life, you just have to change your beliefs about money. It's that simple!

jenna343
07-25-2009, 11:54 PM
Wow! Thanks for this, very true indeed the one main thing is you need to feel comfortable with money. If you always think that it's the root of evil then subconsciously you will be rejecting the possibility of making more money --- instead of attracting money to your life.

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JoyBringsWealth
07-27-2009, 06:52 AM
Wow, so true. I've had my own experience with this...I didn't realize for a long time that I was actually only comfortable with no more than $1000 in my savings account. I just couldn't picture myself having more than that in there, not that I didn't try, it was just that every time I would get more in there, something would happen where i would need the overage (like car breaking down, or unexpected bill or something like that). So the most I could ever keep in there was the $1000 and if I would get some extra money, I would immediately think "oh, I bet I'll need this for some emergency or something" and wham! It would happen! Then I read a book called "The Millionaire Mind" and it helped me realize that the $1000 was what I was comfortable believing I could have, that I had programmed myself at some point in time into thinking this was the most I could have. And there is a big difference between believe and wanting - because who wouldn't want more? Well, guess what? Once I was AWARE that this was what I was doing, I was able to stop doing it - and now have more money in the bank! Now, I'm working on believing I can have a min. of $50,000 in there - i'm still working on this :-) I'll let you know as soon as I've achieved it! But, seriously, "The Millionaire Mind" really opened my eyes up to the differences between how I thought versus how millionaire's think. It's a great book!

countrygirl
07-27-2009, 05:01 PM
Great post volybal3!

kent_77
07-28-2009, 12:10 AM
Good Point Volybal. Coming from a guy who lives paycheck to paycheck it is quite difficult for me to mange my money sometimes. I have to set a budget and goals though. I believe that you definately have to set goals to be successful

rosa41
08-02-2009, 10:22 PM
I was the same way as Joybringswealth for years. I never thought I could break that 100K mark for income. It wasn't until I studied millionaires and posed many questions to people that make that income that I realized that my own thinking was the problem. Not long after that I broke that mental and financial barrier.

Self-awareness is a great thing. Once you have it there are no more excuses. Everything you have or don't have is your problem. It is possible to change. Each person has to make that decision first, only then will the change happen. It's a journey, and they take time.

Ziggy-Zoo
08-05-2009, 03:19 PM
Excellent post yet again from the thought provoking Volybal !!

I have been working from home for some 4 years now (as a Virtual ***istant and only recently and an Affiliate Marketer) so my monthly income has always been very erratic. There were times when it looked as though I was not making enough to cover the months expenses but hey .... each months the bills got paid!! Somehow i knew they would. I just had faith (faith of a mustard seed isnt it how the saying goes)

A while back i didn't have that much spare cash floating around and the electric gate decided to pack in on me. I could leave it on manual but, hey I am a lazy old women at the best of times. So I phoned the guys and told them to fix it and got a bill for $600. Two days later I got a project in and was paid $675!!

Guess the bill attracted the project to me :) Laws of attraction and believing you have the money ... works for me :)